This next part of the series, dealing with Beth Anne Dorman’s breast cancer diagnosis, takes place on the eve of her mastectomy. Beth Anne admits she’s tired — not just physically, but that kind of tired that comes from too many thoughts and not enough sleep. She talks honestly about the fear that settles in at odd times, and equally honestly about the support that keeps showing up. Family. Friends. Coworkers. Neighbors. People who didn’t have to step in but did. And for the first time in her life, she’s saying yes to it.
Dr. Roopa Gupta from Lotus Oncology and Hematology sat next to her, the calm in the room. Beth Anne still smiles about her surprise at finding someone like Dr. Gupta “on this side of the bridge,” but she’s not really joking. There’s a steadiness to Dr. Gupta. Her approach is straightforward: “You do the living; let me do the worrying,” she tells her patients. She also speaks about getting clear information to newly diagnosed patients as quickly as possible, before fear fills in all the blanks.
The conversation didn’t follow any structure. It wasn’t meant to. It was simply two women — one heading into surgery, one guiding her through the maze — talking about what this moment actually feels like. A little messy. A little funny. Very real.
This video is approximately 10 minutes in length. For more information about breast cancer, please go here. For information about Lotus Oncology, please visit here.


















Rima didn’t come to Easton on a straight path. By the time she settled here, she’d already had more than a few careers. She was born in Cleveland, Ohio, on January 2, 1928, in a time when girls were supposed to be polite, patient, and quiet. But that was never her style. She worked in Washington, D.C., as assistant director of the American Civil Liberties Union, ran the Democratic National Committee’s Democratic Advisory Council, and became the first director of government affairs at the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts.
One of the people who saw her in both public and private moments was Amy Haines, owner of Out of the Fire. First, a lunch regular, Rima became a friend who wasn’t shy about her opinions. When Haines announced she was moving the restaurant to a new location, Rima, then 94, wasn’t happy. “She would lament about the move and how much she would miss her favorite table,” Haines said. “I said, ‘Rima, you’ll be fine. It’s the same food, same people, same environment. Basically shut the flock up.’ And guess what? It was fine.”
That’s what made Rima so special — her ability to turn a working relationship into something lasting. Rima’s friendships often began like that, with a shared project that led to phone calls, visits, and years of staying in each other’s lives. That was the case for Busy Graham, whose connection to Rima started in the early 1990s, when she was running the Institute of Musical Traditions and learned that the Maryland State Arts Council’s site visitor for their first grant application would be Rima Parkhurst. Graham thought the name sounded familiar “Come to find out that Rima was among my Mom’s very best friends on the Shore–AND the mother of musician-singer-songwriter Brooke Parkhurst whose concerts and recordings I had long admired. A very small world indeed!”