Teen Drug Use: 14 Mistakes Parents Make

Teen drug abuse: 14 mistakes parents make

Talbot Partnership wants parents to know that they can do a lot more than some realize to help protect teens from drugs or alcohol. One key is avoiding simple mistakes, like these 14 cited by addiction specialist Dr. Joseph Lee, a spokesman for the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and medical director the Hazelden Center for Youth and Family, an addiction treatment facility in Minneapolis.

1. Failing to set expectations

Teens who know their parents disapprove of drug use are less likely to use – and vice versa. Dr. Lee says it’s

best to let your kids know how you feel about drugs before they hit their teenage years.

2. Ignoring mental health issues

More than two-thirds of young substance abusers suffer from mental health problems, such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, and eating disorders. As a rule, substance abuse and mental health issues come together in young people. If your child undergoes an evaluation for drug abuse, make sure it includes a thorough mental health screening.

3. Assuming experimentation is no big deal

Experimentation doesn’t necessarily lead to addiction, and some parents figure that there’s nothing especially

worrisome about a child trying drugs or alcohol. In fact, even dabbling in substance abuse can cause big

problems, such as car accidents, sexual assault, and serious overdoses. It’s not a normal rite of passage.

4. Being dishonest about your drug use

Parents often feel uncomfortable discussing with their children their own experiences with drugs or alcohol.

There’s certainly no reason to wax nostalgic about the “glory days,” but Dr. Lee recommends being honest if

kids ask. “I am not aware of research indicating that an informed discussion with kids about your drug use

leads to them to use drugs,” he says.

5. Blaming yourself (or your spouse)

There’s no such thing as a perfect parent, and there’s no use in shouldering all the blame (or blaming your spouse) if a child has a drug or alcohol problem. Feeling guilty isn’t just unpleasant, it can complicate substance abuse treatment – by dividing the family just when it’s important to pull together as a team.

6. Setting a bad example

Think teens simply don’t pay much attention to their parents? Research suggests otherwise. Parents should remember the power they have to positively influence their teen’s choices through their own behaviors.

7. Being judgmental

Being firm is one thing, but “laying down the law” in a moralistic way can close off lines of communication.

Try not to be judgmental or to jump to conclusions. Do all you can to make your child feel comfortable about

coming to you for help, if it’s needed.

8. Failing to consider risk factors

Just as obesity is a risk factor for diabetes, smoking is a risk factor for teen substance abuse. Other substance abuse risk factors include early aggressive or disruptive behaviors, depression, ADHD, and anxiety. If your child has any risk factors, get help.

9. Confusing intelligence with maturity

Just because a child is smart doesn’t mean he/she is mature enough to have good judgment about drugs and

alcohol. The brain region responsible for judgment – the prefrontal cortex – doesn’t fully mature until a person

is in his/her mid-20s.

10. Not locking the medicine cabinet

Prescription drug abuse is a huge problem in the U.S. The CDC says one in five teen’s experiments with prescription drugs at some point, and most teens obtain the drugs not from drug dealers or the Internet but from friends and family. Be sure to keep track of all drugs in your home. If you no longer need pills, get rid of them. And pay attention to other substances around the house that have the potential for abuse, including solvents, aerosols, etc.

11. Failing to consider family history

Like many diseases, addiction can run in families. If it runs heavily in yours, it might be a good idea to adopt

a strict no-drinking policy in your home. There are no hard and fast rules for what is acceptable for all families, Dr. Lee says. And a teen can develop a substance abuse problem even in the absence of any family history of addiction.

12. Not noticing changes in your teen

Changes in sleep, mood, friends, activity level, academic performance, weight, personal hygiene, etc. can all

signal a substance abuse problem. So pay attention. Monitor your child’s welfare with particular care at times

of transition – moving to a new school, onset of puberty, breakups with boyfriends or girlfriends, etc.

13. Putting off getting help

Two million children between the ages of 12 and 17 need treatment for a substance abuse problem, according to a recent survey. But only about 150,000 get the help they need. If you think your teen may have a problem,

have him/her assessed by a child psychiatrist, pediatrician, or another expert. Remember, prevention and early intervention are key.

14. Not talking about driving

The top three causes of teen death in the U.S. are accidents, homicides, and suicides. Each of these problems

is linked to substance abuse. Make sure your teen knows about the dangers of driving under the influence –

and pay attention to his/her whereabouts.

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